Mind Of A Boyfriend

The Tea 20 - Worst Heartbreak stories + Abortion debate

Fri, 03 Apr 2026 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea : We talk about the worst heartbreak stories and give our most unfiltered reactions, and in between we have a candid debate about abortion.

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The Tea 19 - Pre Nut Delusion and Dirty Boyfriends with Musa Steezy

Fri, 27 Mar 2026 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode Lance, and Kyu are joined by Musa Steezy and talk about this week's tea and some wild relationship commentary: A dirty boyfriend, prenut clarity, expectations in relationships on husband and wife duties

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The Tea 18 - Dont feel pity for me because I'm pregnant + Ghosted by a friend and cried

Fri, 20 Mar 2026 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea : Dont feel pity for me because Im pregnant + Ghosted by a friend and cried

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The Tea 17 - Mind of a Girlfriend week +3rd wheel friend makes me insecure

Fri, 13 Mar 2026 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea : Mind of a girlfriend week + Keeping third wheel friends who make you insecure + more

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The Tea 16 - I had sex with my friend's girlfriend + My boyfriend wants to impregnate me

Fri, 06 Mar 2026 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea : I had sex with my friend's girlfriend + My boyfriend wants to impregnate me

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The Tea 15 - Post Valentine's Clarity + Paying Subscription for love

Fri, 27 Feb 2026 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu do a post-nust clarity review but for Valentines, what it means to people, if it matters and how some people are probably buying love : Post Valentine's Clarity + Paying Subscription for love

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The Tea 14 - Jealous Boyfriend vs Asking for money from Baby daddy's family x As Told By Us

Fri, 23 Jan 2026 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode we are joined by Chido from As Told by Us as we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Jealous Boyfriend vs Asking for money from Baby daddy's family x As Told By Us

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The Tea 13 - Engaged and dating 51 year old from tinder but now wants his son + Got dumped 4 times for the same reason + Tones of commentary

Fri, 02 Jan 2026 18:00:00 GMT

In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Engaged and dating 51 year old from tinder but now wants his son + Got dumped 4 times for the same reason + Tones of commentary

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The Tea 12 - Once pinned a pregnancy on the wrong guy + Over possessive bestie + He loves only me

Fri, 26 Dec 2025 18:00:00 GMT

In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week :Once pinned a pregnancy on the wrong guy + Over possessive bestie + He loves only me

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Chapters

(00:02:04) Introduction

(00:04:33) Cup 01

(00:16:48 ) Cup 02

(00:27:25 ) Cup 03 - Very Hot cup

The Tea 11 - Baby daddy sends $10 after 3 months + S3xted for 4 hours then ghosted

Fri, 19 Dec 2025 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Baby daddy sends $10 after 3 months + S3xted for 4 hours then ghosted

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The Tea 10 - Dated 3 brothers + Stalked by a married man

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Dated 3 brothers + Stalked by a married man

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The Tea 09 - Am I wrong for dating my ex's little sister + My girl got the job I was also applying for

Fri, 05 Dec 2025 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Am I wrong for dating my ex's little sister + My girl got the job I was also applying for.

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Chapters

(00:00:00) Introduction

(00:03:49) Cup 01

(00:09:40) Cup 02

(00:15:00 ) Cup 03

(00:24:30 ) Cup 04

The Tea 08 - He posts on WhatsApp statuses but doesn't respond to my texts + I'm in a situationship with my brothers friend

Fri, 28 Nov 2025 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : He posts on WhatsApp statuses but doesn't respond to my texts + I'm in a situationship with my brothers friend

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Chapters

(00:00:00) Introduction

(00:02:48) Cup 01

(00:13:00) Cup 02

(00:18:53 ) Cup 03 - Very Hot cup

(00:24:53 ) Last Cup

The Tea 07 - 30 year old Sugar mama + Rebound to get over my bestie

Fri, 21 Nov 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : 30 year old Sugar mama + Rebound to get over my bestie

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The Tea 06 - Tinder threesome with his wife + He thinks I was never a virgin when I met him + Her colleague sent me nudes

Fri, 14 Nov 2025 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Tinder threesome with his wife + He thinks I was never a virgin when I met him + Her colleague sent me nudes

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The Tea 05 - She's 6 years older + I can't stop cheating on him + My granddad has 27 grandkids

Fri, 07 Nov 2025 08:00:00 GMT

In this episdode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : She's 6 years older + I can't stop cheating on him + My granddad has 27 grandkids

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Ep 24 - Catch up + The Tea + Your name might be mentioned here + What's coming next

Wed, 27 Aug 2025 07:02:00 GMT

In this episode , Q (kyu.) and King do a quick catch up on what has been happening , new segments and the tea. This episode also serves as an appreciation episode for everyone who has helped in growing the platform and the commumity.

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(00:00:00) Introduction

(00:02:51) Random Tea

(00:10:48) Shout Outs ( Check your name)

(00:23:08) Relatioship News, Privacy

(00:33:42) Using social media to validate your relationship

(00:38:34) The Tea ( NGL)

(00:56:50) Outro

Ep 23 - Losing yourself in a relationship

Wed, 13 Nov 2024 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode we talk about losing yourself in a relationship, the signs and nuances of it all. Can you related? Drop your Confessions, Stories and questions here : https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9

(00:00:00) Introduction

(00:06:00) The Full discussion

The Tea 04 - Dead Bedroom And Love + Am I a prostitute ? + Exes with benefits

Fri, 08 Nov 2024 18:00:00 GMT

In this episdode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Dead Bedroom And Love + Am I a prostitute ? + Exes with benefits ( A midnight affair)

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(00:00:00) Introduction

(00:01:35) Dead Bedroom

(00:09:35) A Midnight affair

(00:19:06) Am I a prostitude ?

The Tea 03 - Side Chick paid for my main GF's birthday + Cousin with benefits ?

Fri, 01 Nov 2024 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode we get the juiciest tea, we tried to be professional but we're not that strong.

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The Tea 02 - Condoms should be super glued to men + The hypocrite

Fri, 25 Oct 2024 19:00:00 GMT

This week's tea is just too hot. Listen and don't forget to share. Drop yours here : https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9Chapters :00:00:00-Introduction00:03:52-Cup 0100:10:14-Cup 0200:15:30-Cup 03

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Ep 22 - Unspoken + Spoken things you can never do if you're a relationship

Wed, 16 Oct 2024 09:45:00 GMT

In this episode we talk about unspoken and spoken things you can never do if you're in a relationship. We get overly comfortable sometimes in relationship and ignore some of these.Whatsapp channel link :https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06Drop your stories here :https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9

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Ep 21 - Raine + Dating & Expectations + Where Men Go Wrong

Wed, 09 Oct 2024 09:45:00 GMT

In the episode we talk about dating, expectations and where men go wrong with Raine. The first episode diving into the mind of a girlfriend.

The Tea : Pilot - Trust issues because he cheats with me + Salt

Fri, 04 Oct 2024 18:45:00 GMT

Introducing The Tea, a segment dedicated to confessions, hot sips of unfiltered stories and the juiciest bits from you. Drop yours here : https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9

Ep 20 - Is Love enough ? + Breadcrumbing

Wed, 25 Sep 2024 09:30:00 GMT

In this episode we ponder the question ' Is love enough ?' , (okay ponder sounds serious but you get it). We also talk about the ingredients of love/a relationship and make references to EP 12 & 13. Drop your comments.

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Ep 19 - Loyalty tests , Phone Access + Long Distance

Wed, 18 Sep 2024 09:30:00 GMT

In the episode we talk about loyalty tests and whether they are confidence or insecurity, phone privacy in a relationship and long distance relationships ( a little)

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(00:00:00) Introduction

(00:03:58) Phone Access

(00:15:18) Long Distance and Loyalty

Ep 18 - The Dark Side of Male Friendships

Wed, 04 Sep 2024 09:30:00 GMT

The dark side of Male friendships. Past the bromance , do men build or break each other. Why do old women have more friends than old men ?? Are women better at this friendship thing.

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Ep 17 - Bulawayo is One Big Bedroom, Sneaky Links and Sides

Wed, 28 Aug 2024 09:30:00 GMT

In this episode we talk about Sneaky links, sides and whatever titles fall in between. And yes, Bulawayo is one gigantic bedroom if you think about it.

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Ep 16 - The PAST matters,carrying trauma and dating baby mamas

Wed, 14 Aug 2024 09:30:00 GMT

In this episode we talk about how the PAST matters in a relationship and the relationship baggage it brings. We also talk about residual trauma from past relationships, and dating baby mamas.

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Ep 15 - Bring back bullying, sort of , Depression + Unlearning

Wed, 07 Aug 2024 10:04:00 GMT

In this episode we get into the things that shape us and we talk about bullying and it's impact ( weirdly enough some of it's positive side effects). How it manifests in relationships and things related to it. We also talk about depression, male support systems and lack there of.

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Ep 14 - Season 2 Pilot + New Things + Sex talk because why not

Wed, 07 Aug 2024 10:00:00 GMT

Season two of the Mind of a boyfriend !!! We are back and it's befitting to talk about sex. We talk about practicality of celibacy, double standards and all the New things the season has to offer.

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Ep 13- It's YOU, not me - Valid reasons to break up pt 2

Wed, 22 May 2024 11:15:00 GMT

In this episode , we dive into the difficult but important topic of navigating the end of a relationship. In Part 2 we explore how Growth, Religion , Infidelity and other related issues are valid grounds for a breakup.

Ep 12 - It's YOU, not me | Valid reasons to break up PT 1

Wed, 15 May 2024 11:12:00 GMT

In this episode , we dive into the difficult but important topic of navigating the end of a relationship. Join us as we explore the complexities of breaking up and valid reasons for going through with it.

Ep 11 - Relationships are burning + Thoughts on Long Distance Relationships

Thu, 09 May 2024 17:53:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore the intricacies of long-distance relationships . Well, after spending an insane amount on the crazy thing that have been happening in Bulawayo and people's relationships.

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Ep 10 - Age is just a number right ?

Wed, 17 Apr 2024 12:39:00 GMT

In this episode we talk about Age gaps between partners. If age is just a number , blessers don't really exist right ? And we discuss how to navigate age differences in the dating world. And of course we keep things raw, unfiltered and definitely unapologetic. The real question though is , What is an acceptable age gap ? Do age differences matter ?

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Ep 09 - What is a talking phase anyways

Wed, 10 Apr 2024 15:56:00 GMT

In this episode we explore the intriguing world of talking phases in relationships. From initial attraction to building deeper connections, we examine the complexities of this controversial stage. Q talks about topics like exclusivity, talking phase duration, and questions in between

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Ep 08 - Exes, Russians and cheating guide

Wed, 03 Apr 2024 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode we talk about conversations about exes in a relationship , cheating and King runs down the ways in which people try to hide their cheating. ( We know them Now !)

Ep 07 -Types and Expectations

Wed, 27 Mar 2024 16:00:00 GMT

In this episode King and Q talk about types, expectations and random things that you probably should know before you date.

Ep 06 - Lobola : Relevance and Modern Views ( Said Raw)

Wed, 06 Mar 2024 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, Q talks about Lobola. (It is an African custom by which a bridegroom's family makes a payment in cattle or cash to the bride's family shortly before marriage. ) It's relevance, and modern views around the tradition.*sorry for the technical glitch at the end

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Ep 05 - Girlfriend Allowance, Hobosexuals and Blessers

Wed, 28 Feb 2024 10:00:00 GMT

In the episode we ( King , Lance & Q) talk about a lot of things related to money in relationships including talking phases, dynamics of dating and impossible expectations . The bulk of it being just absurd.

Ep 04 - Green Flags (But Said Violently or whatever)

Wed, 21 Feb 2024 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode Q talks about Green flags in a relationship. This follows an episode that highlighted a couple of red flags which somehow still exist. You'd think as humans we would have evolved past those.

Ep 03 - Red Flags, Just Those

Wed, 07 Feb 2024 10:00:00 GMT

We often graze the subject and treat these like relationship bonus points. In this episode Bummy and Q talk red flags over wine, while King battles his potentially contagious dinosaur flu.

Ep 02 - 2ks, Fear Women And Growing Up

Wed, 31 Jan 2024 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode we talk about 2ks, well apparently 90s babies are scared of life. We also talk about growing up, the pressures of it and why women are evil.

Ep 01 - Tampons, Blood and How little Boyfriends know

Sun, 28 Jan 2024 08:25:00 GMT

In this episode Bummy schooled us about how little we know about tampons, menses and related related stuff. We kid you not, Men have no idea about periods, and we hope you learn from this too.